13 In him you also were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and when you believed. 14 The Holy Spirit is the down payment of our inheritance, until the redemption of the possession, to the praise of his glory. (Ephesians 1:13-14 CSB)
We can chose to live through our circumstances or live above them. Each day we are handed new challenges and new expectations to meet. We can allow them to crush us under the weight of the responsibility or we can rise above them and allow Christ to see us through.